It’s a feeling.

When you live the life you love, you’ll be feeling a certain way.  Not all the time but the majority of the time.  And actually it’s a good thing that it’s not all the time.

You have to have the ‘not so good times’ to heighten your feeling and appreciation for the good times.

For example, you don’t know how good it is to not have a tooth ache until you have a tooth ache.  When you don’t have a tooth ache, you take pain free teeth for granted until you have a tooth ache.  And then the moment when your tooth ache disappears is such a glorious moment.  And in that moment you really appreciate the feeling of having pain free teeth.

Make sense?

So when you are living the life you love, it’s not all going to be fabulous but the majority of it can be. And for those times when it’s not so fabulous, you’ll really enjoy the exquisiteness and the feeling of the moment when it becomes the life you love again.

The ‘not so good times’ are a wake-up call, a reminder, a contrast, to the fabulousness and feelings of the life you love.

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I was in a life I loved with my Mike but I didn’t really know it, or appreciate it, until I didn’t have my Mike anymore.  Unfortunately, I can’t go back to my life before as Mike is now on the other side.  But what I can do is inspire you to relish, be aware of and appreciate the parts of your life that you love and I can also inspire you to increase those parts of your life that you love.

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The point I’m trying to make (and you are probably wondering) is that when you are living the life you love, you’ll be feeling a certain way.

So rather than start with trying to work out what the life you love would look like (what you’d be doing and having etc.), I suggest starting with how living the life you love would make you FEEL.

Get clear on how you’ll feel and this will become a great filtering and sorting mechanism for creating and moving towards living a life you love.

So how would you feel?

Happy?  Alive? Excited? Free? Exhilarated? Passionate?  Joyful? Awesome? Unstoppable?

LOVE?

Maybe you’d feel like life is one big delicious ice-cream.

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Come over and join the conversation in my Facebook Group.  It’s got a great feeling to it.